Dave, have you looked inside a toilet tank in a home toilet? Are you familiar with the fill valve?
Forget the old ones with the big bulb on a stick, they're obsolete. The new ones use a circular float that comes up around the fill tube, and the whole assembly (tube & valve) is about five bucks. That's all you need for a proper and legal "sanitary break" on a fill.
If you look it over...it allows water to enter and fill, with or without a tank, and it is physically impossible for the water supply to be contaminated with "toilet water". Which, by the way, is also perfectly potable in a toilet TANK, as opposed to the bowl. So you've got a $5 part that has all the fancy engineering done. Just needs a hose and optional cut-off valve to supply it. And not just one, but TWO up-to-code sanitary breaks protecting your water supply.
If your holding tank is located above or equal to your fresh water tanks...that's a bigger threat than plumbing fresh water into your head.(G)