I have foul weather gear and appreciate it's abrasion resistance, but it find myself never wearing it and wearing camping clothes instead. So I recommend REI, Moosejaw, or Sierra trading post.
The problem is sailing clothes and huge and heavy and uncomfortable. I'm really into sports clothes and I think foulies are some of the worst designed high end sports clothes. Rock climbing/camping clothes and just so much lighter and easier to move in. Arcteryx is my favourite and they have abrasion patches on the butt and knees often.
I think unless you are going offshore, in bad weather for days on end you don't need bibs and a huge jacket. It's also not very warm for how big it is. Take the Gill os1. Is has not thermal, it's just a shell. But it's probably heavier and bulkier than an arcteryx shell, mid AND base layer. And arcteryx has all sorts of cinch and adjustment points to cover your head and face. They also make different lever of pants that do come all the way up in bib form.
I'm not an arcteryx salesman, but I brought a lot of clothes on my last two trips including sailing specific clothes and the only sailing clothes I wore was the summer weight ones.
