We have the Jabsco Quiet Flush heads right now. The idea that they are actually quiet makes me chuckle. You can hear the mascerating pump from anywhere aboard. The intake pump is another story, but you can hear that from anywhere as well. Unfortunately, our intake is under the sole, inside our stateroom, just outside the head door. If you use the head in the middle of the night, there ain't no way your spouse is going to stay asleep. We're resigned to it.
Still, I generally like the unit. Takes some TLC as many heads do. Occasional rebuild kit, etc. Mine are 10 years old and I've replaced all the mascerating pumps too. All electronics eventually fail. On the positive side, having your waste mascerated right at the bowl helps avoid clogging.
I have one caution with an electric head. If it fails, do you have a manual pump head aboard? We don't, but we do have three heads, so we've gotten away with it. I have some stories about guests using the head and not being able to flush. Very humiliating for them. The guys took it better than the one woman who it happened to over the years. Most often it's been a loose wire or worn switch. Once the pump itself failed.
Some electric heads have a manual override. Ours doesn't. Worth thinking about.
Sealand makes both a mascerating and vacuum flush unit, I believe. The latter vacuflush is the gold standard, IMO. Very low water usage, but must be the most expensive marine heads on the market. They work like airline toilets and literally vacuum the waste lines clear.
As for fresh water flushing. If I was using a vacuflush, I might consider it, but it still seems unecessary. Electric mascerating heads require even more flush water than hand pump. Why? Because everything gets chewed up and mixes with the flush water, as you're trying to first push it up to the vented loop, so gravity can get it to the holding tank. We first flush the contents of the bowl, then literally fill the bowl to the rim with clean water and flush that at once to chase it all out of the lines. That will use a ton of water (and holding tank capacity) Peggy Hall would say that you need to flush up to 3 gallons of water with a mascerating head.
We have a 77 gallon central holding tank for 3 heads. It's good for a few days for just my wife and I, but with a boat load of guests, it's almost full daily.
Electric heads are the closest thing to a home toilet, but they are absolutely not the same. I leave a laminated card in each guest head so they know how to use them. At the bottom I congratulate them for now being toilet trained.
