I see a lot of people here talking about oversized anchors here. Can somebody explain this too me? It seems they are saying they don't trust the manufacturer of the anchor enough to trust their sizing guides. Why not just purchase an anchor that works flawlessly like a Rocna or other new gen??? So your 35lb CQR worked for ten years of cursing but now that you have a new gen... you are going to 45, seems like a lot of rampant paranoia.